Writing / Life
Deceits in Titles
Nicholas Ilechie / / 3 min read

Don’t get easily swayed by titles, for titles aren’t personalities.
A girl may win the title (Most Beautiful Girl in The World) but does that make her so?
You may not even give her a second look on the road and neither may her beauty attract you for beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
Titles deceive
A man may bear the title ‘Prophet’ ‘Reverend’ ‘Pastor’ or ‘Man of God’ yet when you get close you realize he’s just a Hippocrates and fraud.
Just because a person bears the title;
“Mother” doesn't make her motherly many parents are just child-bearers and nothing more.
“Pastor” doesn't make him righteous or upright many preach but don't live by the word.
“Doctor” doesn't make him know how to save lives, many have the degree and not the practice.
“Professional Trader” doesn't make him skilled or profitable, results forsake most.
Learn to see people for what they are and what they do and not for what they claim to be.
Just as titles deceive emotions also deceive, watch your emotions, and question your feelings and judgments.
On Instagram everyone can be a celebrity just by having a handful of followers, everyone can be a millionaire and everyone seem happy as it’s all a show and putting up appearances is a thing we humans are good at. - being real is hard.
But when you go out and see life for what it is, walk on the streets, visit parks take trips, and see life for yourself...
You know movies like social media can paint death to be desiring, war to be a fun fair and a joke of emojis, and depression to be a joke and normal, the comment section being the habitat of their audience and victims who think they know what they are doing.
Be real with life else you may live your whole life only to realize late that you've wasted all your years on things that can't be held and add no value to life.
As kids, we hurry to be youths and think old age is far then we slip into teenage and flirt and party all through only to get into our mid 20, some of us realize late in our 30’s that most of our life will be spent as adults with responsibilities and not as kids or party life of youths.
Yet in our youthful days, we have the most opportunities and tenacity for greatness beyond measure...
But we waste our youthful days only to suffer till death when we could have made better use and live a good life till death - of course, all men must die but only a few truly taste life 😅
And just like the title, don't expect this content to be solely on the title, read the paragraphs for what they are not try to tie them to the title of the article 😅
Klaus 🫶